Sexualized Masculinity : Boy Meets Girl

Masculinity (also called maninity, manlinessor manhood) is a set of attributes, behaviors, and roles generally associated with boys and men. Masculinity is socially constructed, but made up of both socially-defined and biologically-created factors.This makes Theyit distinct from the definition of the biological male sex,[ as both men and women can exhibit masculine traits.

Traits traditionally cited as masculine includecourage, independence, andassertiveness,though traits associated with masculinity vary depending on location and context, and are influenced by a variety of social and cultural factors.The counterpart to masculinity is femininity.


Women’s fashion has ventured off into men’s wear. It is important to incorporate the ying and the yang factor when attempting this look. A meticulous merger of men’s tailoring and a woman’s sex appeal is the best way to create a stylish synergy. A simple suggestion: Men’s fit trousers and blazer feminized by a silk button-front blouse. This is a transitional look is made day time chic  when coupled with a pair of oxfords while also working well for a night on the town when heightened by 5″ heels. The day version of this look works well with long, lean figures. Less lengthy women should opt for the latter. Heels will give more petite women a more masculine height. Also, try a slim fit pant with a mens shirt. This works well for all body types. Literal accents can add style but choose wisely. There is a fine line between couture and costume!


Suggestions: untied bow tie, draped tie, classic hat, cuff links, handkerchief, or suspenders.


Want to really make a statement!……. Try sleek, pulled back hair for a more complete look.


Loc GLOW : The Beginning

Sitting here at Fresh Lookz Salon in Las Vegas getting my hair done this Friday morning. I finally went ahead and got my locs started. Im so happy this journey was a long time coming but I had to make sure I was ready. There’s no turning back and I wouldn’t want to go back. Ive tried every hairstyle there is to have so im READY for this Loc LIFE :)
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The before picture is of my hair in a natural damaged state. I dyed it twice within 24hours and its over processed and brittle to the max. I hate doing hair, im not a hair person at all. Ive been wearing braids for years and finally decided to dye it and wear it natural…. boy was I wrong. The dye and lack of care has destroyed my hair. Yes its just hair but I don’t like it shedding like a dog lol. This year i vowed to be dedicated to taking care of my hair as much as my body and soul

Im not ready to show off my locs until they loc for work reasons …. so ill wear a wig until. Stay Tuned

UPDATE : ! took the wig to simply enjoying the entire journey. I figured i would embrace it all the GOOD , the BAD and the UGLY! if your wondering how my stylist started my loc journey she palm rolled them.

Top 5 GLOWS of the Day




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We come across so many stylish fashionistas on social media. They all have their unique style that separates them from the rest. Me personally , being Founder and CEO of Eccentric GLOW I feel like its part of my job to bless my followers with the most stylish , fashionable , chic and different ensembles. Putting this list together was so hard I changed the order like 3 times. All of these ladies bring it and slay EFFORTLESSLY. I can count on these ladies everytime for a gorgeous ensemble from head to toe. Each one has their very own style and originality. Im sure you have seen these ladies on my social media outlets numerous times and you’ll see them numerous times again.

5. Taylor ( @_1taylor )

4. Lonni (@iamlonni)
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3. Meka B (@SHEBEFLY)
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2. Danni Dutchess (@hairbydanni)
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1. Ashleigh (@thedaileigh)
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LOVE : My Favorite Couples of 2014

LOVE : The most spectacular,indescribable, deep euphoric feeling for someone. 

Love is an incredibly powerful word. When you’re in love, you always want to be together, and when you’re not, you’re thinking about being together because you need that person and without them your life is incomplete.

Rather they are high profile or super low key , which I feel is best when you in the limelight cause ppl will tire you down quicker than support you. All of these couples stand out to me , like when I see a pic of them or watch a interview with one talking about the other I can feel the love. We all know just like any relationship aint none thats perfect but what’s perfect is when you don’t give up when the road gets rough.

I love how Monica caters to Shannon! How Savannah has unconditionally been holding the crown since high school. Beyonce still works endlessly being married to a successful man that match her hustle. Karrueche in my opinion is the definition of LOYAL. Meagan is proof you never just a book by it’s cover. Chrissy rides super hard for her man Jimmy. Keri keeps her man smiling so we know she’s doing her job.

All these ladies possess a trait I would love to mimic in my future relationship. In a industry filled with ceo and management fixed relationships to gain popularity …. I feel these are real and pure.

Meagan Good and Devon Franklin
In 2011, Good began dating DeVon Franklin, an executive for Columbia Pictures and Seventh-day Adventist preacher. They became engaged in early April 2012, and were married on June 16, 2012, at Triunfo Creek Winery in Malibu, California. They have stated that they remained chaste prior to their marriage.

LeBron James and Savannah James
Lebron proposed to Savannah Brinson, his high school sweetheart, on December 31, 2011 at a party celebrating New Year’s Eve and his 27th birthday.The two were married on September 14, 2013 in San Diego. Together they have two sons, LeBron James, Jr. and Bryce Maximus James, and one daughter, Zhuri James.

Shannon and Monica Brown
In June 2010, Monica met NBA player Shannon Brown when looking for someone to play the love interest in her video for “Love All Over Me”.Monica later announced her engagement to Brown via her Twitter account, posting a photo of a rose-cut diamond ring. On November 22, 2010, the couple married in a secret ceremony at their Los Angeles home. The marriage, however, did not become a matter of public record until January 21, 2011, when Brown told the Hip-Hop Non-Stop TV-Show. They had a second wedding ceremony for family and friends in July 2011.In September 2013, Monica gave birth to her third child, Laiyah Shannon Brown

Jim Jones and Chrissy Lampkin
Been together 10 years

Keri Hilson and Serge Ibaka
Just celebrated 2 years together this pass summer

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Beyonce and Jay-Z
Beyoncé is believed to have first started a relationship with Jay-Z after a collaboration on “’03 Bonnie & Clyde”, which appeared on his seventh album The Blueprint 2: The Gift & The Curse (2002). Beyoncé appeared as Jay-Z’s girlfriend in the music video for the song, which would further fuel speculation of their relationship. On April 4, 2008, Beyoncé and Jay-Z were married without publicity.

Chris Brown and Karrueche
Karrueche Tran is the girlfriend and future wife of pop and Hip Hop music star Chris Brown. Who she has been dating for 5 years. Born in 1988, she is from Los Angeles, California, where she met Chris years ago. Now a household name because of her infamously popular relationship, she was originally known for modeling. Good friends with Pastry Shoes boss, Vanessa Simmons, she is not new to the Hollywood circles. It’s rumored she met Chris Brown through Vanessa. 

Different Ways to ROCK Natural Hair

Its safe to say that natural hair has taken over the beauty world, more and more women have fallen in love with their natural god given textures. I mean everybody and their momma going natural and staying away from the ” creamy crack.” Which means more creative and trendy hairstyles have been introduced.

Even Black women in Hollywood are continuing to show off new and innovative ways to wear their natural hair. From bold hair coloring, to fresh updos, curly locks, and twist and curls.
EMBRACE the natural honey it don’t hurt it may be nappy but it don’t hurt lol

Below are some natural hairstyles that I LOVE omg . Each one is different , versatile and can be worn on any occasion.

Look below to see a few you may LOVE and want to try


Turban GLOW : Wrap it UP

















Just Married: Solange Knowles & Alan Ferguson Tie the Knot 


You’re looking at the first official photo of Mr. & Mrs. Ferguson! Solange and her longtime boyfriend Alan got married today in New Orleans in front of about 200 people.



The happy couple said “I do” at the Marigny Opera House in New Orleans. Around 2 p.m., the pair arrived via white-painted vintage bicycles, and it was all about the details: The bride’s basket held flowers!

“Beaming. Calm. They looked pretty calm, relaxed on their wedding day,” one onlooker tells PEOPLE. “Definitely happy.” 

As for their arrival attire, the bride rocked a cream pantsuit with a cape and plunging V-neck (accenting her look with a red lip), while the groom matched in a white suit sans tie.

Ahead of their nuptials, the newlyweds celebrated with anintimate pre-wedding bashFriday at NOLA’s Indywood Cinema, which Hayley Sampson, the theater’s co-owner, told PEOPLE, “was pretty adorable.”

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Solange looks absolutely radiant! We love the fact that she got married in a pantsuit — so chic!

Beyonce , Jay and Blue were also in attendance

Momma Knowles boyfriend Richard and cool kid Juelz

SN: Tina came to SERVE honey #snatched


Fashion & Style 411 : Leniza_Evy

In case you aren’t already one of her loyal followers, I’d like to introduce you to Leniza_Evy a fashionista , naturalista and soccer player. After running across this electic trendsetter on IG , she become a fashion fixture on my Instagram page as GLOW of the Day and various others such as HairCRUSH and StyleCrush. Im so honored to have had the change to chat with this beauty.

Get the 411 on where she loves to shop and her current celebrity StyleCRUSH.


Question 1: So when’s the first time you fell in love with FASHION?

I would have to say when I was in the 7th grade because that’s when I remember I started to always dress up for school.

Question 2 : Do you have a signature STYLE?

My signature was always the vintage look but now I constantly change my style that I don’t have a specific one anymore.

Question 3: Who is your favorite DESIGNER?

I actually don’t have a favorite designer. I wear anything that I find nice and can afford.

Question 4 : Who is your current STYLE crush? 

Rihanna always does it for me.

Question 5: How do you pick the ensembles you display? 

I usually throw a few options on my bed and see what colors/print look good together.

Question 6 : What are some of your favorite boutiques to get your fashionable pieces?

Dazzling Divas. IG: Dazzling_Divas


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